That thinking is NO good.
We must be thankful and appreciative of what is in our lives at the present.
These circumstances are here to teach us something.
Embrace whatever that lesson is.
Then move on to the next one.
This is the life of lessons.
And if you get stuck, you just have to do it all over.
If I never loved I would have would have cried ~Simon & Garfunkel
Sometimes, crying is just what you need.